Scarlet, 28

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Well, I’m a touch older than the 28 the site insists on. A small digital mishap I’ve decided to keep; it adds a bit of comic relief. 😊

I’m a widowed mother of four, recently back in The Mother City after years in The Queen’s Land. Life has a way of reshaping us, and after great loss, I’ve learned to embrace simplicity, laughter, and the kind of peace that comes with knowing yourself.

My friends describe me as warm-hearted, intuitive, and quietly strong - the one who remembers birthdays, makes tea when you’ve had a rough day, and somehow finds light even in dark moments. I love good conversation, soft music, and those evenings that end with honest laughter rather than noise.

I’m not rushing into anything. Just open to meeting someone genuine, kind, and emotionally grounded. Someone who understands that companionship, at this stage, is less about perfection and more about presence.

A guy (45 - 65)

Someone grounded, kind, and quietly confident. A man who listens more than he boasts and leads with warmth rather than ego. I’m drawn to emotional intelligence, integrity, and a sense of humour that doesn’t need an audience.

He values peace, conversation, and connection. The sort of person who knows the difference between being busy and being present. A genuine soul who’s ready for something calm, real, and beautifully uncomplicated.

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